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Tonight is the night.


no negative talk. just do it tonight. #lakers

this short little phrase spoke to me SO MUCH.

PSH . fuck the future . you want me , make me yours NOW . because you’ll never know what will happen tomorrow .
(via Alyssa Marie)

we all say.. time is valuable. yet we let time be the factor that makes our decisions. Time gives us opportunity to figure out if someone is trustworthy or if someone is right for you by getting to know them inside and out. but what would happen if time suddenly turned its back on us, snatched the opportunity away from you. What if you told her "I'm busy, ill just see you tommorrow" and shes gone the very next day?

this quote is just a simple words spoken that have deep meaning.

welcome back.

why not come back with a raw, real, post?


Side note: Ive never cared about what people thought about me when i write what i write. these are my ideas/feelings. you can judge me but on what understanding? oh ignorance. thats right.




love.
first comes the pleasure.
then eventually comes the pain.
complete understanding & compassion.
being empathetic.
actions.
they speak louder than words.
promises, then made with sincerity
now broken in vain.
take a risk in it.
take a chance.
you have EVERYTHING to lose
and nothing to gain
give it all you got.
but you never go back to being the same.
they all sound cliche?
well they all mean something.
you come in with everything
and leave with nothing.


13 THINGS LEARNED FROM LOVE

(VIA ALEXIS BELON)



  • It’s okay to let him teach you how to do domestic things that should be innate to you since you’re a girl.. like cooking. Embarassing. But okay.
  • Never, under any circumstances, is it okay to burp, fart or poop in front of him. Luckily, I didn’t have to learn this one the hard way because us pretty girls don’t do any of the forementioned.
  • You don’t necessarily need to see his vision to support his decision to pursue it. I’ve had difficulty in the past faking support for men I didn’t really believe in. Fortunately, this time around, I completely and whole-heartedly believe in his talent so supporting his dreams is effortless anyway.
  • I really can’t trust anyone else in the world to mix an alcoholic beverage to my taste buds likings but him. I don’t even need to ask what he’s giving me anymore, because I know it’ll taste good.
  • Don’t compete with Call of Duty, 2k, or any video game period, for his attention. You’ll lose.
  • Sleeping with someone > sleeping alone. But if you happen to fall asleep in different rooms, don’t wake up throwing a bitch fit because he fell asleep on the couch watching a movie; bask in the glory of having enough room to sleep with your legs spread eagle.
  • Never go to bed mad, stay up and fight! With previous dudes, I always kept whatever they were doing to irk me bottled up but w/ this kid, I feel comfortable just confronting him. Maybe every issue doesn’t get solved, but at least they’re not eating my alive.
  • No matter how great he is, to your brothers, he will never be good enough.
  • Sex is better when you love someone.
  • I’ve learned that he’s the only person in this whole wide world who can actually win arguments with me.
  • Sometimes you’ll catch him being a goof troop and find yourself smiling at the fact that not only do you love this geek, but you also love his goofiness and nerdy tendencies. Don’t just hold out for the person who will just tolerate your little quirks, hold out for the one who kind of likes them.
  • And other times you’ll catch yourself staring at him in complete awe that someone could be this beautiful.
  • If he isn’t your musical soulmate, he probably isn’t your soulmate at all.

I BOLDED THE ONES I STRONGLYA AGREE WITH

2010 Playoffs. LETS GET IT LAKERS.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Currently Reading : Moonwalk by Michael Jackson


Sooo Im hanging out with my old friend Aikeen at A. Mills about to go buy a pair of shoes and hes like lets go to Books a million first so he could buy a book. I wasnt expecting to buy a book AT ALL... im not quite the reader, dont get me wrong there are books i find myself loving after beingforced to read them for class but other than that i dont go buying books for my own pleasure. Anyways... i see on display the MJ autobriography.. so im lookin at it like "omggg. i want this! this better be legit!" Cuz some autobiographies arent written by the person, but it was. You know me... a REAL true MJ fan.. i was dying to get it.. but shit was $25.00 ... so i was like are you serious, thats too expensive for a damn book -___- but i just had to get it. i got it instead of a pair of shoes. ARENT YOU GUYS PROUD! :] im only on pg. 46 but im anxious to read more!

Today in my Health Services Administration class...

We're learning about Long Term Care. Nursing homes is a part of it.

Professor Camerano tells us a story about a woman who had to put her husband in a nursing home because he was too ill for her to care for. At the nursing home he fell in love with another patient. She didnt take him out the nursing home or make him transfer. Why? Another student said "she was seeing someone else?" (class laughs) Professor: No. because he had alzhiemers. (you all know should know what that disease does). She loved him so much and understood the disease allows you to forget about everything and everyone. This woman was Sandra Day O'Connor - Associate justice of the supreme court of the U.S.


this story touched me.

LoveGivesmMeHope #1


I am a young African American woman and I have had to face racism many times in my life.

A month ago, a white man stopped abruptly on the street to tell me how beautiful he thought I was. Soon after, we began dating. Today I found out that his grandfather was a member of the KKK.

How generations of hate can be erased my one moment of love GMH.