So I actually saw this episode of Tyra on t.v. and yay theres a clip of it.. its kinda long like 12 mins I think but worth watchin. Its about mothers teaching their daughters to marry for $ (although, there is one SENSIBLE mother who teaches her daughter to marry for love). I just thought this was very interesting cuz im pretty sure most of daughter's moms want their daughter to marry for money (maybe?). And also because its a very realistic issue
My grandma is always tellin me to marry a rich old guy (she married my grandpa who is white and was in the military).. and she be serious too lol. and well my mom says marry for love but marry someone who can support you too. I agree with my mom. I can be independent and have my own job and make my own money but if you my husband we need to support EACH OTHER. Ive never been the girlfriend to be a gold diggin type AT ALL. Anytime a guy asks to pay for me i always insist on them not payin or i make sure i ask once or twice its okay. I like chivalry and the man treatin the lady but believe it or not i actually like payin once in a while on dates and buyin gifts for my bf .. it makes me feel like an independent and generous person (:
